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wow okay so it turns out that’s still a huge hot button issue for me

lol never gonna fade

but protip

“if they loved you, they would not (commit abusive behaviour)”

is actually really harmful rhetoric

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  • Feb 27, 2012 7:25 pm
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  • while i realise that there are victims/survivors of abuse out there
  • who also subscribe to it
  • my knee-jerk response is
  • sorry you don't know diddly fuck about abuse?
  • which is probably kind of unfair
  • but holy shit
  • if abusers were incapable of sincerely loving their victims
  • then my childhood would not have been even CLOSE to as fucked up as it was
  • tw: abuse
  • the rhetoric i personally subscribe to?
  • LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH
  • not loving someone in a HEALTHY way
  • is not the same as not loving them at ALL
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    As another victim, I’d also like to add that it’s possible to both love someone and hate them (for being an abusive...
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  8. nova-bright reblogged this from pluckypalaeontologist and added:
    this this this people can love you and fuck you up in ways you...believe love doesn’t mean...
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